How do you communicate with highly sensitive people?
- EXPLORE YOUR OWN FEARS. ...
- DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY. ...
- SEEK TO UNDERSTAND, NOT JUDGE. ...
- SPEAK IN A LANGUAGE THE OTHER HEARS BEST. ...
- DO YOUR BEST, THEN LET GO.
- Don't take it personally when they need more alone time. ...
- Avoid telling them that they are, “too sensitive,” or that they need to toughen up. ...
- Watch the volume and content. ...
- Engage in meaningful conversations. ...
- Be patient.
- Accept diversity. ...
- Respect boundaries. ...
- Pay attention to their body language. ...
- Keep lines of communication open. ...
- Use the sandwich approach. ...
- Don't invalidate their emotions. ...
- Plan out heavy conversations. ...
- Keep emotions level.
Step 1: Show empathy and listen intently.
The person has already put themselves in a vulnerable position by coming forward in the first place. It is imperative to be empathetic to their position and listen. Body language and eye contact go a long way. Lean in and be attentive.
Living with High Sensitivity
HSPs may struggle to adapt to new circumstances, may demonstrate seemingly inappropriate emotional responses in social situations, and may easily become uncomfortable in response to light, sound, or certain physical sensations.
Characteristics of Highly Sensitive People
Are easily overwhelmed by such things as bright lights, strong smells, coarse fabrics, or loud sirens. Feel stressed when they have a lot to accomplish in a short amount of time. Avoid violent movies and TV shows. Withdraw during busy days.
The positive traits of people that are highly sensitive include emotional awareness, empathy for others, the ability to pick up on small cues that others miss, dedication to fairness and justice, passionate and innovative thinking, and an ability to demonstrate good leadership through valuing others.
Close, meaningful relationships
HSPs crave deep connections with others. In fact, according to Aron, they may get bored or restless in relationships that lack meaningful interaction.
Due to traits of their personality, heightened empathy or childhood conditioning, many highly sensitive people have repressed anger, and do not know how to deal with their emotions healthily.
Because of their capacity to feel things on a deeper level, they can become easily offended by hurtful remarks made toward them or others. Highly Sensitive People quite often have a higher degree of empathy towards others, but this isn't necessarily always and only the case.
How do you motivate a sensitive person?
- Accept Highly Sensitive People. ...
- Address Sources of Stress. ...
- Let People Work Alone. ...
- Provide a Quiet Place to Work. ...
- Give Advance Warning. ...
- Encourage Your HSPs to Take Action.
- Be patient – give the other person more time.
- Check you have their attention before talking.
- Reduce background noise and distractions.
- Use short sentences and familiar words -
- emphasise the key word or phrase.
- Speak clearly and slowly and use an appropriate.
- tone of voice.
- Check hearing aids and glasses are being worn.
- WRITTEN COMMUNICATION. ...
- ORAL COMMUNICATION. ...
- NON-VERBAL AND VISUAL COMMUNICATION. ...
- ACTIVE LISTENING. ...
- CONTEXTUAL COMMUNICATION.
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Let's take an in-depth look at all the ways that we communicate with each other.
- Non-verbal communication. ...
- Verbal communication. ...
- Written communication. ...
- Visual communication.
The introverted (I) intuitive (N) types (“INs”)—INFJ, INFP, INTJ and INTP—are among the most “sensitive” of the personality types. This is especially true of those who are more turbulent than assertive.
Most highly sensitive people display rare strengths in key areas of emotional intelligence, also known as emotional quotient (EQ) — the ability to recognize and understand emotions in themselves and others. These strengths including self-awareness and social-awareness.
A verbal safe haven: HSPs thrive in relationships where they feel seen, heard, and valued. Since highly sensitive people feel things more deeply than most, their feelings often get hurt more quickly than others'. HSPs thrive in relationships where they feel seen, heard, and valued.
And while sensitive people are highly intuitive, because they have such a strong sense of empathy, they can easily end up in toxic relationships more so than others.
It is important to note that many highly sensitive people are not narcissistic. Highly sensitive people are often aware, empathetic, and excellent listeners, which are the antithesis of narcissism.
Being a highly sensitive person is not a diagnosis or a medical condition and does not require treatment. However, HSPs may find relief from this label for their experiences. They may receive meaningful support from therapy and resources or books about HSP.
Are highly sensitive people jealous?
The dictionary defines jealousy as "feelings of worry over the potential loss of something valuable." In business, experiencing jealousy is fairly common, but those feelings are amplified if you're a highly sensitive person.
Highly sensitive people activate brain areas to a greater extent to interpret in great depth and detail the information of the affective and emotional states of the people around them, especially those close to them.
Alternatively, a person who is sensitive in a temperamental way is usually defensive regarding threats to his or her ego. Hypervigilant about protecting his or her self-esteem, this person often, unconsciously, deflects accountability, and unfairly projects blame onto others to escape internal discomfort.
Sights, sounds, smells, and other forms of sensory input may cause a heightened experience for HSPs. A sound that is barely perceptible to most people may be very noticeable, and possibly even painful, to an HSP. There's more to being a highly sensitive person than just being sensitive to stimuli.
Most HSPs are either INFJs or INFPs — the ones that don't tend to be ENFJs or ENFPs. Whether you're one or both, it's important to know what stresses you, what overstimulates you and what makes you feel calm, relaxed and happy.
- A slower, simpler pace of life. ...
- Time to wind down after a busy day. ...
- A calm, quiet space to retreat to. ...
- Permission to get emotional and have a good cry. ...
- Time to adjust to change. ...
- Close, meaningful relationships. ...
- A gentle, healthy way of managing conflict.
HSPs' Empathetic Natures Can Make Them Great Sexual Partners
But HSPs can (and deserve to!) enjoy sex just like everyone else, and our empathetic natures can make us great lovers. We often just need partners who understand our needs, our concerns, and the need for communication about our differences.
Well, actually, you can be both! This irony wasn't lost on psychologists Emanuel Jauk and his colleagues who observed the similarities between the way some self-identifying highly sensitive people talk about themselves and two core features of narcissism: self-importance and entitlement.